To everyone who has taken the time to commit in words their memories, thoughts, stories and feelings for my treasured husband Paul Harding.Christopher, Jake and I thank you with all the love our broken hearts can currently muster.Your words have given us strength, enduring courage, dignified tears and the occasional giggle during these the darkest days of our lives.We have been truly overwhelmed by your tributes, letters of support and cards.The depth of our gratitude is beyond measure.