It it with great sadness and regret that I must announce the death of my long time friend Peter Uden who died at 4.50am this morning in Winchester Hospital.
He was recovering from an operation to repair a broken hip caused by a recent fall and considering his long term health problems had surprised the doctors with his fast recovery. However, he developed severe breathing problems late last night from which he could not recover.
He is survived by his wife Joyce and four children.
The funeral of Peter Uden will take place on Friday 11th December commencing 1.30pm at the ATR Winchester Chapel. The burial will be at Lovedon Lane cemetery, Kings Worthy at 2.30pm followed by drinks and light refreshments at the ATR Sergeants Mess.at 3.00pm. All are welcome to attend.
IMPORTANT
If you are going to attend the funeral you will need to satisfy the security requirements for entering the ATR by sending the full names of those in your group by email to Ken Ambrose at ken.ambrose1@btinternet.com by not later than 12 noon on Wednesday 9th December. Please use PDG Uden as the subject of the email.
Family flowers only please but donations are requested to the Help 4 Heroes or Rifles charities.
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The Funeral
Peter Uden`s funeral took place on the misty cold afternoon of 11th December and went very much the way it was intended with 60 plus people in attendance at the church in Sir John Moore Barracks Winchester. In addition to his service friends those of his immediate family who paid their last respects at the service are listed below. If I have missed anyone out I apologise and am happy to add any names missed from this list on receiving notice of them.
The coffin, draped with the RGJ flag and with Peters forage cap on top, was carried into the church by six of his former service colleagues and a short service preceded the eulogy which was given by Billy Hughes who presented a very good verbal picture of Peters life and achievements.
Following the church service the coffin with about 25 mourners in attendance were transported to the burial site at Lovedon Lane cemetery, Kings Worthy, where a short service was followed by the interment of the coffin and the playing of Last Post by a bugler from The Rifles.
There then followed a gathering of about 30 people in the ATR Sergeants Mess where tea, coffee and light refreshments were served.
Joyce Uden would like me to express her thanks and gratitude to all those who attended and in particular to thank Billy Hughes and Gareth Dixon for all their help and support during this very sad time for Peter`s family.
Chief Mourners
Joyce Uden, Anne Uden, , Mr & Mrs S Davies, Claire Davies, Mr & Mrs G Yates, Mr & , Mr & Mrs T Nutt, Mr & Mrs Stanswood, Mr & Mrs S Uden, Mr & Mrs G Yates, Andy Cuthbertson, Kelly Cuthbertson, Kevin Cuthbertson, Kylie Hookway, Debbie Mc Clory, TJ McClory, Duncan Nutt, Lisa Nutt, Charlotte Parker, Karon Prior, Claire Stanswood, Ethan Stanswood, Holly Stanswood, Steven Starkey, Edward Wilson, Gavin Yates.
Mourners - Former Military Colleagues
Brian Darvill, Mr & Mrs K.C Ambrose, Mr & Mrs P Veasey,Mr & Mrs W Hughes, Mr & Mrs C Payne, Mr & Mrs D Marsh, Mr & Mrs Taylor,Dick Brimmer, Gareth Dixon, John Asbury, Ron Cassidy, John Coleman, Chris Crosby, Brian Farndell, Fen Frame, Kay Graham, Steve Horsley, Danny Hunt, Alan Johnston, Steve Kinrade, Jonathan Kinrade, Keith Limburn, Dick Lucas, Derek Milan, Brigadier Nick Prideaux, Brian Scott, John Thomas,
Peter Uden 1st May 1946 - 28th November 2009
Peter David George Uden was born the son of a naval officer in Portsmouth on 1st May 1946. He spent most of his early years there until he enlisted as an Infantry Junior Leader on 12th December 1961. His boys service, during which he attained the rank of J/Cpl, was spent at Oswestry.
In March 1964 having completed basic training at Bushfield Camp where Danny Hunt was his Training Corporal he was posted to 1st Green Jackets in Penang. After further continuation training he became a member of D Company until transferring to 11 Platoon C Company in April 1964.
From May to October 1964 he was in Borneo and took part in the night ambush at Stass which was reckoned to be the most successful operation of that type since WW2 and in April 1965 he was moved with 1 Green Jackets to Berlin.
In Aug 1965 he was promoted to L/Cpl and posted to 9 Platoon C Company and in January 1966 he was posted to 2 Platoon A Company as Section Commander. In December 1966 he transferred back to D Company, Signals Platoon and in Aril 1967 moved with the battalion to Tidworth.
In July of 1967 he became B Company Signals Detachment Commander having previously come top of the Regt Sigs std 2 Cadre. From October to December he attended the Regt Signals Std 1 course at Hythe following which he joined the battalion on its UN tour of Cyprus where he was promoted to Corporal.
In May 1970 following several training exercises in America, Canada and an emergency tour of Northern Ireland in 1969 he moved with 1RGJ to Celle where in November 1971 he was promoted to Sergeant and in the following January posted to 4RGJ as Signals PSI at Davies Street.
In December 1973 he rejoined 1RGJ in Celle and was posted to the Recce Platoon where he stayed until May 1975 when he was posted to the Rifle Depot as Recruit Platoon Training Sergeant until March 1977 when he rejoined 1RGJ in Dover and accompanied them to Hong Kong in January of 1978.
In June 1980 he was promoted C/Sgt and posted to 2RGJ. In August 1981 he took over as Signals C/Sgt following the battalion move to Minden. In December 1983 he was promoted to Warrant Officer and in October 1984 appointed RSO 2RGJ.
In December 1986 he was again back with IRGJ and in the October of 1987 was again appointed RSO IRGJ
After extending his service in May 1989 Peter was posted to Bielefeld where in September 1990 he contracted Legionnaires Disease. After recovering he again extended his service for a further year but decided to leave the Army on 17 May 1993 having completed 31 years and 157 days service
I first met Peter in 1970 when I remained behind in Celle and went over from 3 to 1RGJ, although we did not serve together until 1973. In 1970 he was Signals platoon and I was B Company but we both moved on and it was after completing a posting with 4RGJ that he joined the 1RGJ Recce Platoon where I had been posted at the end of 1972. Looking back on it I now realise that we did not spend a great deal of time working together and I am sure there are many people who are far better qualified than I to write this but we seemed to pack an awful lot into the two years we were serving together and as is so often the case in the Regiment we forged a friendship that would last a lifetime.
At that time, 1973, he was slim, fit and very confident of his own ability. His addiction to crosswords was well established by then and he spent most of our morning coffee breaks in the Celle Sergeants Mess behind the crossword page of the Telegraph. Most of us considered it quite an achievement to finish the Sun crossword but Peter was never happier than when engrossed in the Telegraph cryptic.
He was always a fun character to be around and would invariably see a funny side to most situations. He could tell a good story and knew and was known by many within all battalions of the Regiment. He did not tolerate fools easily and regardless of the consequences would voice his opinions even if there were not asked for or appreciated by the recipient. Like all of us he had his faults but he was a good friend and a dedicated Green Jacket who was always there when he was needed.
In 2002 I became ill to the extent that I would never work again and it was Peter and Joyce who dropped everything and drove up to Buckinghamshire with a bottle of whiskey and then went out and got a massive Chinese meal for all of us. For me things were very black at that time but all it took was an hour in his company (and a couple of glasses of whiskey) to get me back on a positive frame of mind.
I am going to miss you Pete. Although we did not do them that often these days I will miss our sessions at your place in Winchester in the small hours talking about the people we had known and the incidents that we were involved in over the years. I will miss your humour and your help with the knowledge you had of regimental characters that you kept stored in that database mind of yours. I will miss our occasional `quick` telephone conversations that never lasted less than an hour. I will just miss you. Until the next time old friend!
Ken Ambrose
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Very sad to receive this news of Peter's death, I first met Pete in Cyprus on a UN tour in the late 60's, and then went on later to serve with him, in 1RGJ Signal Platoon, both in Celle and in Northen Ireland he taught me so much about the skills of Regimental Signals, which were put to good use, we became the best of friends and muckers, I last met him at the Reunion 3 years ago, I could fill this page of stories of Pete, but will leave room for others as I am sure many old friends will be posting entries here.
I send my sympathy to Peter's wide family and friends.
RIP Pete, untill we meet again
Plug Darvill
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May I entend my deepest sympathies to Peter's family and friends at this time. I only met him the once, he seemed a man full of fun and the stories were excellent. He will be missed greatly by all that knew him or heard of him.
I visited & spent a couple of hours yesterday early evening, he was in the best shape I had seen him for a long while. He said that they had started his physio with his new hip and had him practising get in and out of bed. He said the physios were obviously born nasty for wanting to inflict more pain and sw had a good laugh over that.
We talked as we always do about when he was my Sjt back in the A/Tks Pl on the '77 tourand we laughed about the different situations we had. We talked further about us being neighbours in Hong Kong in Balmoral Block and we'd sit on the back veranda having a beer or two and then he was already in 2RGJ when I went there. We continued our freindship, even though he would berate as he always did for my odd moments of 'discretion' (trouble I got in) but he still called me and met in Verner & Rasher's the local pub in the married quarters area. I went to his parties at his flat and always had a great time.
I always said to him when we were talking about my 'indiscretions', "So what Pete, they've done away with hanging , they can't shoot me or sh-g me and make me pregnant and what are they going to do different that they have already done before?!"
He would reply, "Oi you Ferkin Scouse B'staad, you've been lucky so far, 2RGJ is different and its giving you a new start now buck your Ferkin ideas up. Think about this, wouldn't it be good if you and I could stand at the Bar in the Sjts Mess and legimitaley have a drink together."
"Yes Pete, I'd really like that", I mused. Thankfully, we had that drink in the Sjt's Mess but not in the Bn, it was when he was CSM HQ Coy stationed in Beilefeld. To me Peter Uden was a Sjt, C/Sgt & WO2 'Sar'nt Major' a guy who was very intelligent being part of the winners of the Brains of BFG (British Forces Germany) when we were at Minden along with other very nice men Pete Jones and Mickey Walsh sadly all bloody signals Pl! However, through Peter I met some other great men, a couple spring to mind and great freind of Pete's; Johnny Astbury who I'd first met in '72 when I was in jail for a moment of indiscretion and the lovely Dick Lucas. To people of my era Peter was a big brusque SNCO/Sar'nt Major but once you got know him he had a soft side that was like melted chocolate.
I remember my first Trg Cpl in '71 Cpl Gary 'Scarf' Jones pointing at Pete at a reunion in Oxford in Slade Bks, Scarf said to me, " You know what Billy, see Pete Uden, I remember him being a lead scout in Borneo and he was a young fit man and an excellent soldier." Coming from Scarf one couldn't get a better accolade.
During his time at Beilefeld he contracted Legionnaires disease which as we know now was to cause him many many health problems as he got older. He told me that when he was 47, the Army told him he had to retire, for Peter he said it was crushing. But Regimental HQs found him a job and he told me when he was working with Maj Ron Cassisdy it was great doing different types of research. Pete's brain kept functioning although his health was not good, he would always do different crossword puzzles in the broad sheets, a clever man always with a thirst for knowledge.
Last night we talked about having a few drinks when he got out I know he had a penchant for Asback Brandy but he also loved 'Black Bush'. Whe his lovely wife Joyce, who was also his first love, turned up last night she said "Oh sorry Pete, you'll have to buy some more 'Bush' we drunk it all last night". He was a bit miffed until Joyce said I was only joking! Peter smiled and said I knew you were only joking". We chuckled at him, the little things in life.
He explained that Sinead (Petes daughter) is about to give birth and that he has told her "You wait until I'm out of here.' Don't worry Sinead, your father was a protector and he is with you always. He talked about Sean, his Son, how proud of him he is and Sean's job of helping people. I asked Pete about whether he would consider moving in to a bungalow nice two bedroom. I explained it would be good, all on one floor no stairs, a wet room all the mod cons. Quick as a flash, "No Billy, we need the rooms we have all the kids and the Grand kids, no mate, thanks, but no thanks. Joyce and me we love having the kids. I may moan occassionally but we like having them over night"
Later when Joyce came in she reiterated what Pete stated but added "what about the chickens?" It turns out Pete and Joyce have chickens at the bottom of the garden giving them fresh eggs everyday, Pete was as proud as punch.
I left him in fine spirits surorunded with love and affection at 19.25. To all his family take comfort that he was yours and you were his, I'll be seeing you.
Peter, my dear freind I'm gonna miss telephoning and dropping in to see you. Over the years you were very good to me. God Bless Mucker and I look forward to seeing you in the Final RV.
Well done Billy, you paint a clear picture of Pete for us that did not know him. The interesting thing is that his name was well known to us in the 3rd who never met him. Many condolences to Pete's family, may he rest in peace.
My deepest and sincere condolences to Joyce and the family.
I am very saddened to hear of Pete's passing and have known him since 1964 when he joined the Regiment in Penang and am glad to have been able to call him a 'mucker' of mine.
I had many a good laugh with Pete and he was responsible for me learning and retaining all my so called 'signal' skills. We were both promoted to Full Corporal in Tidworth on the same day and he used to jibe me with the fact he was an acting rank and I was substantive straight away. As we all know, he went on to become a WOII whereas my career ended during and because of our 2nd tour of NI.
RIP mucker - you and your phenomenal memory will be missed by everyone.
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A very sad day for the family of a true greenjacket, I met Pete in Celle in 71 when i was enroute to Steibis he was one of the nco#s on duty as we walked thro the gates looking lost and knackered from travelling. he made us welcome in the HQ block till Capt Prideaux arrived to tell us where wew were staying. Pete , rest in peace mate and my deepest sympathy to your family and friends that will miss you immensely. Celer Et Audax
Shocked and sad to hear about Pete. My thoughts are with his family.
Pete and myself were in the same Training Pln in Bushfield in early 1964. Both of us came from boy service Regiments. Pete was IJLB Oswestry and we both were on the same Draft to IGJ in Penang in March 64.
Pete was another of those larger than life characters, even at age 18 in those early days. He went on to be a great member and servant of the Regiment.
One particular story I have of Pete comes from early 1977. Bob Andrews and myself were sent to the LI Depot in Shrewsbury to attend a Light Div Drill Course with about a dozen other LI and RGJ lads. Two weeks of drinking, punctuated by some drill lessons! Pete was the Instructor on the course. On my Final Test Lesson, Pete stood behind the squad as I taught a drill movement for 40 minutes. At every opportunity, Pete would pull faces at me and do Monty Python type silly walks up and down to put me off and make me laugh. I managed to get through it despite his best efforts. On my course report, Pete then wrote: 'Serjeant Wells failed to take this Course seriously.' !! (He got that right!) Pete, we will never forget you. RIP mate.
Absolutely gutted, can't find words at this time to exprees my feelings. One of my best Muckers. We have our branch dinner tonight, we will remember you in our usual way my Big Mucker. Joyce, Anne and all that huge family of Peter's my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will of course see you when we celebrate Petr's life together. Luv and stuff. Ginger XXX
I am so sorry to here of petes passing he and i go back through many years of signals together i remember when he and i were doing the signals officers course at warminster the fun we had winding up the young signsls officers on the course during one exercise he and i sat in the back of a land rover never moving but giving all the correct answers to the questions being given by the staff (plug darville and dick lucas) this young officer commented are you two serjeant majors cheating petes reply was instant of course sir you dont think at our age were going to run around like headless chickens i will miss him very much a very good personal friend . pete you may be gone but i and many others will never let you be forgotton may you rest in peace my old friend my thoughts are with you joyce at this sad time
So very shocked to hear of the sad news of my good friend Pete.We first met back in 1961 when when we arrived at IJLB Oswestry.We became good friends and the memories of our time together while at Oswestry will last forever.Pete was always there with a helping hand when the going got tough.We went to Winchester together then on to our first overseas posting, Pete to 1GJ OXS & BUCKS and me to 3GJ RB. Sadly our paths never crossed again until a couple of years ago at Winchester, Pete was still the same wonderful guy,although his health was not the same as when we were boys. Going to miss you my old mate, the world is going to a poorer place without you.Till we meet again, I salute you as both friend, brother rifleman and soldier.
Rest in Peace Pete, it was privilge to have known and served with you.
My sincere condolences to Joyce,children and family at this very sad time for us all
So sorry to hear about Pete. I called Joyce this morning to see how he was and if it would be ok to visit but was told the bad news by Sean. I met Pete when I rejoined the Bn in Minden and we got on well. We lived next to each other in Minden and often sat on the balcony having a beer or two late into the evening. Pete always got a last burger out of the dying embers of the BBQ. We shared many a good night over at Vernons pub and often when we were late back for dinner and the phone rang Pete would say to Vernon " tell her I've gone" A very clever man was Pete and he will be sorely missed for his wit and wisdom. My condolences to Joyce and all Petes family. So long mate.
Pete, was my Pl Sgt when I went through Training where I remember him as being very hard but very fair. I also served alongside him in the 2nd and later with the 5th when he was working at Slade Park museum.
Condolances to Petes family and friends, First met Pete in Tidworth just after getting promoted to Sjt which was good as he was full of advice and he always knew the answers. I now know my passing will be easier as there is a sound advance party.Good night see you sometime in the future.
I was saddened to hear of Pete's death. I first met him in Penang all those years ago. It was plain to see that he was a young Rifleman with much promise. And so it turned out. His unique sense of humour, his unswerving loyalty to his friends and Regiment will never be forgotten.
My deepest sympathy goes to Joyce and his family at this very sad time.
Extremely sorry to hear the sad news. Although I had not seen Pete for many years, I did have telephone conversations with him which were typically friendly and helpful, almost as if we had been serving together just the other day rather than the 30 years or more that had passed. His passing is a great loss to the Regiment. Rest in Peace, my OBLI mucker. My sincere condolences to all the family
Sorry to hear of this sad news, I worked with Pete in the signals plt in Minden. Great man who liked a good laugh, probably one of the best times we had together was in Mick Walsh house having a few beers and then trying to get him home again... that was hard.My condolences to his family.
What a shock, having just read that he had started his recovery, and this. Pete was a True Green Jacket, remember him from the time in Support company and from Hong Kong. Sad day, another Green Jacket gone to the final RV. Will be attending. My condolences to his Family.
I too had the privilege of having Pete as a Plt Sjt back in 76 at Penn Bks and then met up with him again with 5RGJ when he worked in the Slade Museum. My deepest condolences to all the family.
I met Peter in Berlin where as very young Riflemen along with Charlie Povey, Tommy Many, Danny Basden and others we took the Signals Course, Peter was the wide boy and for some reason we all looked up to him.
Through many years many parts of the world Peter he proved the reason why, he was a true friend, and a good mucker.
So far in my life I have had the privilege to meet some life long pals.
Peter you where up there at the top of the list, see you the the last RV.
My condolences to Joyce and family
Swift & Bold
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